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    Jul 19, 2017

    Three Lies You Must Have Heard About Dating & Relationship

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    Practically everybody, millennials particularly, needs and plans to meet somebody eventually who will love them unequivocally, steadfastly and from every other perspective that has turned out to be perpetually romanticized by children's story films and books. 

    Obviously adore is a wonderful thing, and meeting somebody whose spirit and psyche consolidates superbly with yours brings such bliss and peace that occasionally rises above definition or clarification. 

    Be that as it may, is love truly how individuals frequently say it is? Clearly not. 

    There is something about the human instinct that makes individuals either need to misrepresent things or minimize them. 

    Finding the best accomplice for you and being involved with them is not generally as incredible as individuals say.

    Below are three commonest misconceptions about love, dating and relationships:

    1. 'The one'

    People like to push this idea that there’s a particularly perfect person – just one - out there for every individual.
    They say meeting that person makes your relationship effortless, makes your life colorful and other similar bag of lies.
    There’s no such thing as “The One.” It is just another ‘thing’ some Hollywood scriptwriter came up with and somehow became established.
    There’s more than one person out there that could light up your world. And that someone lights up your world does not mean the relationship will be without issues or that it’ll be effortless.
    Relationships don’t ever work that way.

    2. Attraction is not love

    When most people say they are in love, they are talking about attraction to someone else.
    They are drawn to something the person does, says, and how he/she says and does those things.
    However, you can’t pursue a relationship with everyone you feel this way towards. While attraction is random and unplanned, loving someone is deliberate and intentional.

    3. Love is never one-sided

    Love is about sharing - time, yourself, substance, knowledge and basically everything.
    You can't say you're in love with someone if all you do is receive their affection and all  other good stuff without giving anything back.
    Uwanma Odefa explains these things in her vlog; “Love, Life and Everything in Between,” published on July 17 2017.
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